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Be Upfront About the Relationship that you want.
Written by Brian on June 17, 2022
Too many people enter the dating game not fully sure of what they actually want to get out of it. Granted, most women are hoping to find Mr. Right so they can get married, settle down and start a family. However, not all women are looking for that type of relationship. Many are simply looking for someone that they can have fun with and relate to on an equal footing. Others only want someone to have a physical relationship with and are not actually interested in being involved with anyone.

Nothing is wrong with any of those reasons for dating. In fact, if all people wanted the exact same things in life, this would be a rather boring world to live in. Everyone is different in their own way and that is what makes things interesting. However, if you are looking for a particular type of relationship, it is only fair that you let potential partners know exactly what you are looking for. In that way, if you are someone that wants the white picket fence, you will not waste your time and the time of someone that only wants to date casually. It also keeps you from getting your feelings hurt.

Also, consider the age group that you will fall into when looking for a great person to date. Like it or not, there are certain things that each age group is looking for in the majority. For instance, if you are in your mid -30s, you are going to find that there are a lot of divorced people in this group. They have already done the marriage and family thing and will usually come with some “extras,” such as children. So, if you want to find Mr. Right and settle down but are not necessarily looking for a readymade family, you want to get that clear from the outset.

Younger age groups are still in that phase of just having some fun. They want to party, take trips, and just have fun in general when they are not working. The people that fall into this group are typically not looking for anything truly serious, although they are starting to understand that they will need to be a bit more particular in their dating partners. It just depends on which side of 25 they are.

Older groups such as 40, 50 and 60 years old are usually not hoping to start a family, especially women because by the time they hit 50 they’re going to have to adopt if they want children. Some men like the idea of being a father later in life but most are ready to start enjoying the things that having a career for several years has enabled them to do. They want to travel extensively and just enjoy life.

Then there is the group that contains all ages. These can get a bit dicey because you can have a 45 year old woman dating a 25 year old man and their future plans can be totally different. On the other hand, they can be remarkably similar in the present but change drastically in the future. So, you need to be careful with that.

The most important thing is that no matter what your age, you are clear about the things you want in a relationship. Then there can be no misunderstandings later.

About Author: Brian

Brian was a long time bachelor that was always searching for his soul mate, best friend, and perfect partner. He finally got serious about finding this person and set himself on path that enabled him to find his soul mate and is now happily married to his perfect partner in life.
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